May 172013
 
Ask-A-Domme: dumb questions, discipline, and sadism for its own sake

You’ve got Qs? I’ve got As… but I make no claims about the quality of either. Q: Maid outfit for male restrictive heel locking for oversize male who wants to serve 48 waist and 13 size shoes? where can you buy these? What the fuck am I, Google? Here, let me help you with that. Q: tit or pussy rub Oh… you thought the contact form was a search box, didn’t you? Bless your stupid heart. Q: I have a problem my submissive is also my fiance and our relationship was began under the understanding that we had matching kinks … [read more]

Mar 282013
 
how do I get my wife to dominate me?

Ask-a-Domme: How to Introduce Your Wife to Femdom (or, “how to boil a frog”) Dear D, I am slowly introducing my wife of 3 years (dated for 10 prior) to the idea of her taking on a dominant role. So far I have introduced her to large dildo play instead of me (im about 6″ and thin) fisting her, then I jack off in front of her, and face sitting as well as my foot fetish. Am i on the right path? whats the next best step to femdom? You clever boy!  That’s pretty slick.  ;) Your approach reminds me … [read more]

Jan 152013
 
Ask-A-Domme Advice: I'm meeting a dom for the first time, but I'm not allowed to see him

Hi D, I’m a very curious sub female in training. It’s all been online so far, I have yet to meet my Dom male in person… and when I do, I’ve been instructed that I will not be allowed to see him.  I’m a bit nervous about this although we have built up an amazing bond of trust so far. Your thoughts please on the first meeting condition… So, the first time you meet your Dom in person, he will see you, but you aren’t “allowed” to see him? First, and most importantly, the possible logistics give me some concern … [read more]

Dec 172012
 

You have Qs. I have As. We’re a match made in heaven. Q: Links or patties? A: Chops. Q: Could you tell me what your physical attributes are? Do you have long legs, nice ass, and what size boobs? Things like that. I would like to say that your writing is highly entertaining. I laugh out loud to some :) A: I have a torso, two arms, two legs, and a head. My ass is nice enough, I guess. I don’t see my ass that often because it’s always behind me. I see my breasts all the time, though, and … [read more]

Oct 212012
 
Ask-a-Domme: paddles, piercings, punishments

A round-up of a few reader Qs and corresponding As. Q: “Do you answer peoples questions here?” A. Of course not! That would be silly. Q: “cane, switch, or paddle?” A. Pepper spray. Q: “Where are your piercings?” A: Through the skin, mostly. Q: “Did you meet up with the girl sub again?” A: Yes. Q: “jealous” A: Often. Q: “if Im nauty will you punish me?“ A: Are you asking if I’ll punish you for things like incorrect spelling? Of course I will… as long as ignoring you counts as a punishment. Q: “Is it ok for a Female … [read more]