May 112015
KinkBNB: Airbnb for kinky fuckers

With companies debuting kinky dating apps, it was only a matter of time before someone launched a kinky version of Airbnb. KinkBNB is a pretty good business idea (damn good, actually), and while there’s the potential for similar problems as bookings on Airbnb, at least orgies won’t be unexpected (actually, KinkBNB hosts can indicate whether their listings are “orgy friendly”). The prices are surprisingly reasonable, ranging from $150 a night (Violet Room* in San Francisco, CA, which appears to be a private home) to $650 a night (Le Fleur De Lis Club in Redlands, CA, a well appointed commercial “dungeon”). … [read more]

Dec 292014

he is baptized after speaking in tongues at my altar “Legs B&W” by Nikita Kashner, (2003). Work licensed under Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 2.0 Generic (CC BY-NC-ND 2.0). worship was last modified: December 29th, 2014 by Dumb Domme

Aug 012014
he doesn't swallow

He’s indiscreet when he’s finished with his chewing gum, using his fingers to remove it from his mouth in the middle of conversation, prior to a meal, or before a kiss. I’m no stickler for etiquette, but the rare indelicacy stands out against otherwise good manners. I’ve never said anything because I don’t really care, but I’ve always noticed. Indecorum with used chewing gum happens frequently enough that I recognize the way he lifts his hand before he takes it from his mouth. “Swallow it.” My tone was playful, but my demand was serious. He nodded, said “Yes, Ma’am,” and … [read more]

Jul 302014
good sex, bad metaphors

I’ve been remiss in not talking about the sex. I guess it’s breakup sex. Pre-breakup sex? I’m not sure. Anyway, it’s really, really good sex. The other day, when I said we were just hitting our stride in the bedroom — I was incorrect. If we’re borrowing running/race metaphors here, then the more accurate description might be: We’re like horny cheetahs… in a decathlon… with dildos. I don’t know. I’m not good with metaphors. It’s definitely marathon sex, but with lots of different events, and also, I finish more often than once every three hours. ;) My metaphors are bad, … [read more]

Jul 152014
all the sex things

Dammit. I feel like we’re just hitting our stride in the bedroom. We’ve been fucking for over three years, but because we’re in a driving distance relationship, we haven’t had the opportunity to fuck as often as other couples. While some relationships hit the ‘boring sex rut’ around this time, we’re just now getting good at fucking. It was always good (we always had the chemistry), but now it’s mind-blowingly good… all the time. pinball brain on hiatus In part, it’s because I’m way less in my head than I’ve ever been. J’s leaving, so I don’t have the time … [read more]