Nov 102014
 
reader questions: bears, biology, and "babygirls"

Bears, Boilers, Babygirls, Biology, and Board Games Today’s reader questions are brought to you by the letter “B.” Could you make me a chocolate teddy bear please? FFS. Now is not the time for ambiguity! Do you want me to make you a chocolate teddy bear? Or make you into a chocolate teddy bear? By chocolate, do you mean a flavor? Or a color? I can’t possibly help you if you don’t give me all the information. Since your question is wide open for interpretation, I’m going to have to use my judgment. Go sit in a double boiler and … [read more]

Nov 032014
 
DIY erotic electrostimulation (e-stim)

Today’s Reader Question comes from Sparky of Amperage, AK. Ohm man, watt a shocking question! I expect my response might generate some static, but if you’ve got a short fuse, don’t get all amped up — just try to stay grounded, okay? I’ve had a little BDSM experience… Where can I find extreme electrocution and not pay for it? You’re in luck, my electrically, financially, and intellectually deficient friend! DIY erotic electrostimulation can be cheap, easy, and dangerous. All you need is some creativity, unreasonable expectations, and general disregard for your own health and safety. You could try licking a … [read more]

Oct 142014
 
domme problems: take dictation, please

To give my wrists an occasional break from the keyboard, sometimes I use speech recognition software — Dragon Dictation. It’s pretty easy to use. I put on a bluetooth headset with a mic, I talk, and it types. If I say “The presentation is done comma and I look forward to meeting with you on Friday exclamation point“, Dragon types “The presentation is done, and I look forward to meeting with you on Friday!” It’s surprisingly accurate… most of the time. Today, I think it was just fucking with me.   “…exclamation point” excavation point “scratch that” “exclamation point” exhalation point “scratch … [read more]

Oct 012014
 
a man mansplains the error in my last post

A few days ago, I made a silly graphic to illustrate the “taxonomy of mansplainers.” A day later, I received this email from a male reader… I’m just going to leave that there and go make myself a drink. a man mansplains the error in my last post was last modified: November 6th, 2014 by Dumb Domme

Aug 262014
 
compound FUBAR = clusterfuck

I haven’t posted in 13 days. I don’t think I’ve ever gone so long without saying something, even if it’s only something stupid. I haven’t said much because I’ve been busy, and also, because I’m not sure what to say. And when there is something I want to say, I’m not sure I should. If I’m honest with myself, the big reason I haven’t said much of anything is because I can’t decide whether “FUBAR” or “clusterfuck” is more appropriate to describe the situation. Almost none of the FUBARs that comprise the clusterfuck were unexpected. I knew some tough shit … [read more]