Jun 262015
essential differences

On Thu, Jun 25, 2015 at 7:49 PM, MyBoy wrote: Ma’am, I’m fooling around with video editing and working to become proficient making animated GIFs by lifting frames from movies. If you have any ideas for something you’d like to use on your blog, I’d be happy to try and make one for you. You are likely very proficient at this kind of thing already, and my early attempts are bound to be crude. So, any requests you make would be doing me a favor as I need the practice. On Thu, Jun 25, 2015 at at 9:06 PM, D … [read more]

Mar 192014
"fuckin' shit": the boy has a way with words

Adept at both kairos and decorum, he knows precisely the best moment to deploy precisely the right phrase. His tongue is silver, agile, and articulate. His words are potent and aesthetically engaging — they’re the perfect tint of lavender to make me wonder if I’m in love with him or with his words. He says lovely, crazy-hot things. I want to taste you… He says beautiful things that make my heart ache. I can’t think of anything I want more than what I have right now… He writes lovely missives that touch my heart and turn me on: I want … [read more]

Jan 232014
how to be a good submissive

Despite being impossibly vague, I made J respond to this reader question anyway. (I was curious about how he’d respond.) Today’s Q & J is on how to be a good submissive. Q: How did you become a good sub? I want to please but I am just terrible. Please help. ~ anonymous, via contact form If I knew of a one-size-fits-all method for becoming a good sub, I’d be a thousandaire. But, I would say a lot of what shapes my behavior is based on who the dominant female is. There are four general points I’ll make that do … [read more]

Jan 082014
giving more is not an option; it's a necessity

submissive says: on submission and inevitable endings (J responds to reader questions) Q: Knowing your relationship with DD will end when you move to the west coast, and that it isn’t at some nebulous point indefinitely far down the road, are you doing anything differently to embrace what you have while you have it, and to make the most of it? It seems like DD is being conscious of not denying herself the pleasures that your limited remaining time together affords the two of you. Congratulations on whatever professional development it is that is taking you far away from her, … [read more]

Dec 202013
submissive says: I'm J?

The backstory… I kept this blog a secret from J for over a year — I had my reasons. Fifteen months later, I suspected he found it. I called him out (publicly), he confirmed (publicly), and my secret blog wasn’t a secret anymore. Q: Hello J! I’d love to hear about how it felt to have that dawning realisation when you were reading this blog and started going, “Hoooldd onnnn…”, and then when how you confirmed in your own head that it was DD writing about you, and what that was like, and whether you thought “I should say something…” … [read more]