Jul 122015
 
true sadism

Deep thought?   Dumb thought.   Thought… A thing that happened in my head. Real sadists™ don’t need fetishy torture tools, expensive equipment, or elaborate sexy plans. Real sadists need only creativity and a genuine appreciation for others’ pain. … and glitter. I fucking hate glitter. Image: “accidental spill” by y-a-n, (2005). Work licensed under Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 2.0 Generic (CC BY-NC-ND 2.0). Text by DumbDomme, (2015). true sadism was last modified: July 12th, 2015 by Dumb Domme

May 112015
 
KinkBNB: Airbnb for kinky fuckers

With companies debuting kinky dating apps, it was only a matter of time before someone launched a kinky version of Airbnb. KinkBNB is a pretty good business idea (damn good, actually), and while there’s the potential for similar problems as bookings on Airbnb, at least orgies won’t be unexpected (actually, KinkBNB hosts can indicate whether their listings are “orgy friendly”). The prices are surprisingly reasonable, ranging from $150 a night (Violet Room* in San Francisco, CA, which appears to be a private home) to $650 a night (Le Fleur De Lis Club in Redlands, CA, a well appointed commercial “dungeon”). … [read more]

Mar 062015
 
strategically targeting BDSM newbies

Surrounding the release of the movie that shall not be named, there was discussion about whether newbies to kink and BDSM (particularly Fifty Shades readers with expectations built on fiction) were at risk of being taken advantage of. That’s an interesting conversation, but not one I engage in here. What I think is interesting, though, is the way that Whiplr, the kinky hookup app, draws on those concerns in what appears to be very strategic ways in order to market itself to novices. What is Whiplr Selling? As its predecessors Grindr and Tinder, Whiplr markets itself as a social media … [read more]

Mar 032015
 
Whiplr: the app for kinky fuckery

Whiplr: Kinky Tinder (kinda) . There’s a new app called “Whiplr.” According to developers, Whiplr is “The world’s first and only location-based messaging app to help you connect with people who share your interests in kinks, either online or in person.” Think Tinder for for kinky people… kinda. At least I think that’s the intention. Like Tinder, Whiplr is a messaging app with GPS and location services that will help you find people in your area to fuck. But with Whiplr, not only can you find people who want to fuck, but also, you can find people who want to … [read more]

Dec 292014
 
worship

he is baptized after speaking in tongues at my altar “Legs B&W” by Nikita Kashner, (2003). Work licensed under Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 2.0 Generic (CC BY-NC-ND 2.0). worship was last modified: December 29th, 2014 by Dumb Domme