Dec 292014

he is baptized after speaking in tongues at my altar “Legs B&W” by Nikita Kashner, (2003). Work licensed under Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 2.0 Generic (CC BY-NC-ND 2.0). worship was last modified: December 29th, 2014 by Dumb Domme

Dec 272014
mismatched, misfit, and merry

One of the best lessons I learned when I took my first tentative steps into adulthood was that I didn’t have to go home for holidays anymore. I could say ‘no,’ and just not go home. I know it’s not as easy as all that — it isn’t. It’s difficult every single year. But it’s also easier than the alternative. With few exceptions, I don’t go to my childhood home for the holidays. It’s not my home anymore — this is my home. The family I grew up with will always be my family, but I have a new family, too — it’s made of odds … [read more]

Dec 242014
be <strike>blue</strike> merry!

Don’t have a blue Christmas… be merry! Or be drunk… or whatever…  :) be blue merry! was last modified: December 24th, 2014 by Dumb Domme

Dec 212014
sunday service for the faithful

‘Hot’ isn’t the right word for this — it’s more like smouldering. It’s not the suggestion of action that gets me (though that helps) — it’s the attitude, the posturing… the reverence. It’s the positioning and the inference of a dynamic. It doesn’t ‘turn me on.’ No — that’s too crude and reductive. It’s more complex than that — more visceral. This is the sort of language and sets my brain to a low level hum. It makes me feel dominant — it’s that prowly, hungry, feral feeling. They’re the sort of words that make me want. But in the absence of an available, willing boy, I’ll just have to … [read more]

Dec 182014
bdsm is dirty?: 50 shades of I don't give a fuck

So some interview with an actor I don’t know, from a movie I won’t watch, based on a book I haven’t read, published yesterday in a magazine I don’t read. As reported by European academic journal ElleUK, in doing “research” for his 50 Shades of Grey role as gazillionare Twue Master Dom McDommersons, actor Jamie Dornan visited a “dungeon” and observed some goings on. Dornan’s reflections on his visit has leather panties in a twist all over Kinkville: The inference here, as I read it, is that he felt “dirty” after watching people play, or perhaps that he felt “dirty” … [read more]