Sep 272014
mansplaining taxonomy: a working theory

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I know the model is flawed. It’s a working theory. I suppose I’ll present it at the next meeting of Feminists Eradicating Mansplaining Conference for Understanding Nonsensical Taxonomies (FEM-CUNT) and see what the sisterhood has to say. mansplaining taxonomy: a working theory was last modified: November 6th, 2014 by Dumb Domme

Sep 252014
casual sexism: older, wiser, and still pretty hot

I suspect that because I’m older, I’m noticing more and more ‘casual sexism,’ and because I’m wiser, I’m less inclined to shrug it off. At 33 years old, I’m closer to my 20s than I am to my 40s, but I’m still a decade beyond the magical 20-22 year old sweet spot when men of all most ages find a woman most attractive[1]. Christian Rudder, OKCupid co-founder, rabid data collector, and spreadsheet nerd found that up until age 40, women find men most attractive when they were roughly the same age (as the woman). Men between the ages of 20-50, … [read more]

Sep 202014
squeaky sneezes and monkey buttsex.

Reader Questions: Squeaky Sneezes and Monkey Buttsex Today’s reader questions are fucking ridiculous… and I love them. Any advice for rats with mycoplasma? Teeny tiny tissues for all the squeaky sneezes. Or maybe an owl. Are you hungry? I’m sorry… I think you have me confused with a mere mortal. I can go long stretches without food, sleep, or human contact. I’m superhuman… or a camel. What makes a person rich? Money. Passion… and the opportunity to act on it. Passion for work, for life, for another person, music, exercise, books… whatever keeps your brain humming and your heart happy. … [read more]

Sep 152014
daydream: leaving town

In all of my adult life, I’ve never taken a vacation. I don’t have much desire to travel and little need to ‘get away’ — it’s not for lack of time, ability, or funds, but because I’m happy where I am. The only break I’ve ever wanted is from myself, and since that’s not possible, I’ve done my best to construct a life I enjoy inhabiting. I’m good at what I do, and most of the time, I find it deeply satisfying. I’ve reached the point where I’m comfortable enough in my own skin (despite its flaws) and I’ve learned … [read more]

Sep 112014
advice: experienced slave and novice domme

Today’s reader question comes from Experienced Edgar from Great Expectations, Illinois. You know you can ask me anything, right? That doesn’t mean you should ask me anything… but you totally can. I am a male slave with a fair bit of experience. I met a girl on Friday last, and when I dropped her off, she mentioned something about kink. That immediately triggered my interest, but I left it at that and left. The whole week while chatting, I brought the subject up and she seems quite keen but has no experience. I offered to do all her house chores … [read more]