Mar 302014
whispered words

Kissed and beaten, loved and fucked — he had been dismantled, rearranged, and reassembled until he was less himself and more mine. His eyes glassy and unfocused, he is both entirely present and a million miles away. He is here and he is gone, and what remains of him is mine. Without weapons and stripped of armor, he has no defense against my incantations; I speak directly to his soul. I whisper sweet, sick words of adoration and possession, invoking love and violence, on what I’ve taken and what I want. I want my words inside his head, not just … [read more]

Mar 272014
"dominants are born; not made": dominant narratives of dominance

Dominant (Cultural & Personal) Narratives of Dominance: “Dominants are Born; Not Made” (I call bullshit) A few weeks ago, I described the moment I knew I was dominant, and prefaced the the story with this: I can’t give you some story about how I knew I was dominant my whole life, I don’t see any definitive signs in my past, and there was no epiphanic lightning bolt moment when it hit me. It was my admission that my experience didn’t adhere to the conventions of predominant cultural narratives about dominants and dominance.[1] Though it wasn’t as direct as that, a … [read more]

Mar 232014
stupid search strings: testicle edition

I’m enjoying a lovely weekend with a lovely boy. :) In my absence, I leave you with another installment of… Stupid Search Terms: Testicle Edition. These are actual search terms people that have brought people to my website. I have no fucking idea how people found me with these terms, but it amuses me endlessly. Maybe it was the BDSM lexicon entry I did on “ball-busting”? Anyway, hope you’re all having a great weekend. I’m having a ball! ;) I remember playing duck-duck-goose as a kid! Good times. Wait, how the fuck does that translate to CBT? You slap some … [read more]

Mar 192014
"fuckin' shit": the boy has a way with words

Adept at both kairos and decorum, he knows precisely the best moment to deploy precisely the right phrase. His tongue is silver, agile, and articulate. His words are potent and aesthetically engaging — they’re the perfect tint of lavender to make me wonder if I’m in love with him or with his words. He says lovely, crazy-hot things. I want to taste you… He says beautiful things that make my heart ache. I can’t think of anything I want more than what I have right now… He writes lovely missives that touch my heart and turn me on: I want … [read more]

Mar 182014
e[lust] #56: bisexuality, pornography, and writing sex toy reviews

 Photo courtesy of Understanding Flutterby Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #57? Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Trick of the Light What Does Porn Lead To The Posh Life of a Sex Toy Reviewer? ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ … [read more]