If you like it, who should put a ring on it?
thank you mistress for opening up my email hi mistress my question is which is proper sub asking his domme to marry him or being sub mistress is in control does she ask her sub to marry her thank you for your time i await your answer
Can we get some punctuation up in here?
Anyway, marriage… right.
Marriage isn’t a natural institution. It’s a cultural one. Its associated rituals and rules aren’t “proper”; they’re just common. D/s isn’t a natural institution either. It’s not a biological imperative, it’s just a way people enact what they’re feeling and how they feel about one another.
Any D/s rules are made up and they vary from person to person (and/or couple to couple). There are no universal, “proper” ways to do things — it’s all about what works for you and your partner.
If you’re considering marriage, I would hope both people in the relationship already know each other’s wants and expectations for the relationship, the responsibilities, and any of the related rituals and traditions that could accompany it. If not, then what the fuck are doing getting married? Jesus. Relationships are hard enough… you want to add a legal contract, community property, and joint-filing of tax returns on top of all that? (How romantic…)
If an F/m couple wants to get married and decides the male should pop the question, then the he should pop the question. If they decide the female should pop the question, then she should pop the question.
Either way, I think there should be rings involved — a diamond ring for her and a cock ring for him. :)
In the immortal words of Beyoncé…