May 172013
 

You’ve got Qs? I’ve got As… but I make no claims about the quality of either.


Q: Maid outfit for male restrictive heel locking for oversize male who wants to serve 48 waist and 13 size shoes? where can you buy these?

What the fuck am I, Google? Here, let me help you with that.

Q: tit or pussy rub

Oh… you thought the contact form was a search box, didn’t you? Bless your stupid heart.

Q: I have a problem my submissive is also my fiance and our relationship was began under the understanding that we had matching kinks now there is also a 10+ year age difference ( I am younger) and we love each other very much buttttt I love to play an do kinky things everything is better with your sub at your feet and I want him in 24/7 chasity as well but he is only into it part time and we havent played in a while and I miss it and I don’t know if its me or him or how to fix it helppppp :)

Ah… I see the problem here. You and your sub are having communication issues. Because you’re completely fucking unintelligible, he can’t understand a thing you’re saying. My advice? Try punctuation or a mild sedative.

Q: I recently was with a man who I now realise wanted to be dominated. It freaked me out when he asked me to slap him and spit on him, but I want to explore this but don’t know where to start – is there a ‘how to’ on how to reward and punish, because it seems a bit confusing. Any help gratefully received. Thanks :)

There’s a difference between punishments and “funishments.” Funishments (or ‘fun punishments’) are enjoyable to one or both parties, so they aren’t really used for discipline. If you’re slapping and spitting on your partner for the hell of it, that’s not a punishment or funishment — it’s just sadism for it’s own sake. And as long as you both enjoy it, there’s nothing wrong with that. Who says you need a reason to be ‘mean’? Sadism is fun, and nothing says ‘I love you’ like drawing blood. :)

I considered discipline and punishments, but nothing really worked for us. My thinking is that if boy does something egregious enough to warrant punishment, then we need to re-evaluate the relationship. He’s not a child; he’s a grown man, and if he doesn’t want to act like one, then he should find someone else.

I guess I don’t do ‘funishments’ either — I’m not into brats, and thankfully, J isn’t one. I don’t need a reason or pretense to be sadistic — it just happens. :)

 

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  4 Responses to “Ask-A-Domme: dumb questions, discipline, and sadism for its own sake”

  1. My advice? Try punctuation or a mild sedative.

    LOL! My sides hurt!

  2. Hilarious as always =P

  3. Whats the best way to ballbust a new guy?

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