May 312013
leather and lace (terza rima)

Some say the world will end in leather, Some say in lace. From what I’ve tasted of desire I hold with those who long for leather. But if I had to perish twice, I think I know enough of lust To say that for prurience lace Is also just And similarly base. (shamelessly ‘inspired’ by “Fire and Ice”)   leather and lace (terza rima) was last modified: May 31st, 2013 by Dumb Domme

May 292013

He was marked the day I met him, his arms and chest etched with history that is not mine. His marks are the inscriptions of a life well-lived, mistakes made, and lessons learned. Some are the marks of insult and injury, and some are the marks of battles fought and won. They’re beautiful and I love them. But sometimes, I hate them. I want to scratch them from his skin. His marks — the ones than bind him — they aren’t mine, nor were they made for me. They predate me. They’ll survive me. They aren’t a part of him … [read more]

May 232013
BDSM Lexicon Entry #24: Aftercare

aftercare, n.: Support, attention, or care administered at the conclusion of BDSM activities; often includes chocolate milk, fruit snacks, and fingerpainting.

“After seeing my submissive’s ass after the caning scene, I realized the box of SpongeBob band-aids I brought for aftercare wasn’t going to be enough.”

“When boy started screaming his safeword, I realized my attempt at aftercare was a miserable failure. Who knew rubbing alcohol could sting so much?”… [read more]

May 222013

He’s leaving soon. Maybe? Maybe within the next few months. Maybe sooner. Maybe not. He’s come close to leaving before, but this time feels different. As far as I know, I’ve always been privy to his plans to go — I’ve always been aware — but this time, it took me by surprise. Surprise…? Maybe. J has always been leaving, so I can’t say it’s a surprise. It isn’t. But it is. I nearly broke down a few nights ago, right after he told me… right after he left. I sent two emails. email #1: Fuck you. Please stop it. … [read more]

May 202013
e[lust] #46: erotic fiction, non-fiction, & poetry

My asshole is deeply touched… I mean, not like touched-touched… “How to Shave Your Asshole” made the top 3 this month! Thanks e[lust], Molly, and e[lust] volunteers! Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #47? Start with the newly updated rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Week’s Top Three Posts … [read more]