Apr 292013

com·bus·tion, n., the act or process of burning a process in which a substance reacts with another to give heat and light state of violent excitement; tumult The particular properties of a substance dictate the frequencies at which it absorbs and emits light, ultimately determining the flame’s temperature and color during combustion. As a result of more complete combustion, the flame burns at a higher temperature and purges excess impurities. The reaction creates enough energy to excite molecular radicals which eventually become dominant. As impurities burn off, the flame flickers less, stabilizes, and changes smoothly from yellow to blue.   … [read more]

Apr 252013
beat me, whip me, call me Judy

Looking back, there were signs that indicated I’d identify as dominant. But there were also signs I’d be a ballerina, a firefighter, a lion tamer, a marine biologist, or a ninja. In hindsight, we tend to see the signs that best suit our purposes… and we ignore the rest. Signs justify our present attitudes, behaviors, and characteristics — they confirm that where we are is where we’re supposed to be, and they reassure us that who we are is the person we’re meant to be. Seeing signs is believing in fate, and fate is a comforting idea. It’s important that … [read more]

Apr 232013
consensual co-touching

Excerpt from a chat with the boy… I’m fucking exhausted. I wish you were here. I wish I was there too. No you don’t. You’d be disappointed… I don’t have the energy for hot dirty sexy stuff.   All I want are your arms around me and your cock in my hand… and then I want to rest my head on your chest and listen to your heartbeat until I fall asleep. not that it matters, but the naked-with-cock-in-hand version of cuddling is hot :) Cuddling? Hell no… I don’t cuddle.  I prefer to think of it as naked tandem reclining … [read more]

Apr 222013
e[lust] #45

My piece, “How Do I Get My Wife To Dominate Me?” made the top 3 this month! Thanks e[lust], Molly, and e[lust] volunteers! Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #46? Start with the newly updated rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~ Bringing Toxic Sex … [read more]

Apr 182013
how to shave your asshole

The title is misleading. I have no fucking idea how you’re supposed to shave your own asshole… but I tried. Spoiler Alert: I failed. Wait, what? What’s that you say? Ummm… why do you want to shave your asshole, D? Are you conforming to the unrealistic beauty standards propagated by popular media and pornography? Are you buying into aesthetic standards that make women subject to the unattainable ideals of the misogynistic patriarchy?  Are you seriously attempting to conform beauty standards…. for your ASSHOLE? Yes. I am. Also, fuck you. I wanted to shave my asshole. Deal with it.    Asshole … [read more]