Mar 282013
how do I get my wife to dominate me?

Ask-a-Domme: How to Introduce Your Wife to Femdom (or, “how to boil a frog”) Dear D, I am slowly introducing my wife of 3 years (dated for 10 prior) to the idea of her taking on a dominant role. So far I have introduced her to large dildo play instead of me (im about 6″ and thin) fisting her, then I jack off in front of her, and face sitting as well as my foot fetish. Am i on the right path? whats the next best step to femdom? You clever boy!  That’s pretty slick.  ;) Your approach reminds me … [read more]

Mar 262013
costs vs. benefits

I mentioned in an earlier post that J and I have gone around in circles a bit lately. He’s been inattentive. I’ve been distant. I’m not good at communicating my needs, and he hasn’t done much to figure it out on his own. I don’t like asking for help or demanding attention, and I don’t do either as often as I should. On a few occasions when I have asked something of him or tried to communicate my needs, he’s misunderstood, failed to make it a priority, or flat-out refused. (not every time, but more often than is acceptable) Our … [read more]

Mar 232013
three orgasms... THREE!

While I was out of town, J and I had a pretty heated email exchange (e-fight!). We went round about the same old issues, but nothing got resolved. While we were both angry, we decided to put the discussion (argument) on hold until I got back home and we could talk in person. I did tell him that I’ve been working something that might help — it’s a new system to clarify my expectations of him in a few different areas. It’s not finished yet, but here’s a preview: it has guidelines, examples, quotas, and an “alert system,” all built … [read more]

Mar 222013

Come to me with conviction. I can’t bear the space between us when you’re within my reach. If you hesitate, I’ll make up the distance quick and unburden you of the privilege. Wrap your arms around me. Make me forget that I prefer you stripped and bound. Brush your lips along my collarbone and distract me well enough to lose myself. Don’t give me time to think, just kiss me — soft and sweet and gentle first. Make me forget my want and remind me that I’m wanted. Touch me. Everywhere. Nowhere in particular. Do it now, before I reconsider. … [read more]

Mar 192013
e[lust] #44

My piece, “Everyday D/s,” made the top 3 this month! Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #45? Start with the newly updated rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~ Everyday D/s Honesty sometimes feels like manipulation Blood, life, sex ~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~ … [read more]