Anonymous question submitted via the contact form:
“Tease Me sounds submissive. ;) Do you ever fantasize about submitting?”
If I squint really hard and read every third word, I guess I understand how someone might interpret “Tease Me” as submissive. Not that there’s anything wrong with being submissive (I happen to find submissives very attractive…), but I’m not submissive. I’m all for give and take in bed, but I want it on my terms.
So, no, submission doesn’t play a role in my fantasies. Submissives, however, do play a role in my fantasies. :) Sometimes there’s just one sub… sometimes there are two or three… sometimes it’s a girl…. wait, what was I talking about…?
Oh yeah. While I can’t speak from any meaningful experience, the idea of submitting to someone doesn’t turn me on, and more than that, it kinda squicks me out. (A long time ago, before J, a partner tried to tie me up once and he ended up with a black eye.)