Feb 012012
 

I have the Sportsheets Bare as You Dare strap-on harness, and it’s fine–it’s a good starter harness for anyone who wants to try a harness without a huge investment. I also have the harness-free Tantus Feeldoe, and I’m a big fan.

But, I was recently gifted a Aslan Leather Jaguar Strap-On Harness and I have to say that I absolutely love it.

It’s very well made with good quality leather and hardware. It fits beautifully, sits low on my hips, and feels comfortable and secure. The o-ring is lower than the Bare as You Dare, so the Jaguar positions the base of the dildo right over my clit for maximum contact. I also received a purple Vixen Creations Leo Dildo (pictured), a black Tantus Silk Dildo in small, and a We-Vibe (which I may discuss at a later date).

Besides the quality issue, the other big difference between the Sportsheets and the Aslan is that the the Sportsheets wears like a thong–one of the straps goes up between your butt cheeks. The Aslan goes around the tops of your thighs under your butt cheeks, which is much more comfortable, offers more control of your dildo, and leaves easy access to your pink parts for a toy, a tongue, or an actual cock.

The straps on the Jaguar goes under your butt cheeks instead of between your butt cheeks.

The Aslan is leather, so cleaning and maintenance is an issue. For this sort of toy, I recommend a mild soap (I use Dove dish-washing detergent) and warm water. After hand-washing, let it air dry thoroughly and then use a good quality leather conditioner. I use Coach Leather Conditioner–it keeps everything moisturized without leaving any oily residue.

For further reading and more educated advice than I can offer, see “Which Strap-on Harness?” by Ferns over at Domme Chronicles.

At the (completely innocent) request of Lady Donovan over at The Femdom Virgin [defunct], I’m including a few photos. Oh, and I like attention. That too.  :)

Besides being top quality, the Aslan Jaguar is fucking hot.
In fact, I masturbated right after I took these photos. :)

  12 Responses to “strap-on harnesses”

  1. "Besides being good quality, the Aslan Jaguar looks fucking hot."

    Oh hell yeah! Hot hot hot!!

    Ferns

  2. I'm not a harness or dildo kind of girl, but damn. These photos — and your body — are amazing. Ream me up, Hottie;-)

  3. *Mindless babbling, and just a touch of drool*

  4. @Ferns: It felt hot, honestly. I got turned on looking at myself (how freaking vain is that?)

    @DDD: "Ream me up, Hottie." < -- I almost fell off the chair laughing. :) @Peroxide: If only you were closer, I'll tell you to hush and hand you a napkin. Oh, and thank you… I will accept your babbling. :)

  5. Please, please PLEASE discuss the We-Vibe… I love the idea of it… just, well, trying to see if people actually LIKE it

  6. @Carey: "PLEASE discuss the We-Vibe"

    I will (probably after this weekend). It is a really good idea, but I've read a lot of mixed reviews. I'll post about it next week.

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  8. I also have the Jaguar and love it. I felt the same way when I first put it on. It is sexy hot. I need a different dildo, though. The one I got is too short, and my big one (for me) is unwieldy in the harness.

    Also, you look fantastic in the photos. I would masturbate, too, after taking those.

  9. @Liza: Might it be that you need a sturdier dildo (for the purposes of wielding)? I have another larger size one that I tried and it's just too, I dunno, floppy. The Vixen is sturdy enough, but has enough give that it doesn't make me nervous.

  10. I would comment on the harness, but i am too distracted by you in the crazy sexy photos. olalala!

    Let me catch my breath and get back to you.

  11. @Tinman: Why thank you. :) Harnesses make anyone infinitely sexier… so I can't take all the credit. :)

  12. This is a cold thread, but I’m dripping looking at you. Do you use your Jaguar with your feeldoe?

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