My first and second posts here were more of an introduction than anything else. I haven’t provided many details about how the thing with J started, about how I accidentally identified myself as a dominant (before I really knew what that meant), and for various reasons, I haven’t discussed many of the mistakes I’ve made and some of the difficulties and dissonances I’ve experienced along the way.
In the coming days, I hope to fill in some of the details that I avoided, ignored, or just didn’t see clearly over the past year or so.
I’m not sure that I have a point in any of this, other than slogging through it to gain a better understanding for myself. Don’t expect a conclusion, because there won’t be one. Don’t expect much insight or wisdom, because I don’t claim to have any. Don’t expect me to finish, because I’m easily distrac…
continue to Retrospective, Part 1: Accidental Dominant