Nov 152011
 

For your amusement (and for your information), I present the seventh installment in Dumb Domme’s BDSM Lexicon, “pegging.”

View all past entries here.


pegging, n. /ˈpɛgɪŋ/ (IPA)  [peg-ing] (spelled) 

Definition:

pegging, n.: A sexual act where a man’s ass is penetrated by a woman’s strap-on dildo.

advice for pegging male in the ass

Usage:

“My boyfriend wanted me to peg him while he watched old episodes of Saved By the Bell. He came really hard when Zack Morris froze time.”

“Darling, you’ve been so sweet today. Go fetch the golden dildo–you deserve a good pegging.”

“Darling, you’ve been very disobedient today. Bring me “Bertha”–you deserve a good pegging.”

“I asked J to create a pegging playlist on iTunes. So far, he has ‘Relax‘ – Frankie Goes to Hollywood, ‘He’s a Whore‘ – Cheap Trick, and ‘The Rainbow Connection‘ – as performed by the Muppets.”

Pegging Fun Facts:

  • Pegging is a relatively new term. It’ was brought to popularity by Dan Savage, via his column, “Savage Love” in The Stranger. In 1991, Savage proposed a vote to find a singular term for the act of “a woman fucking a man in the ass with a strap-on dildo.” After rejecting “fomsodding” and “hetmobas” and “she-nis,” Over 12,000 people cast their votes, and “pegging” won with 43% of the vote.

    • (Honestly, aren’t you glad that you were pegged? You could have been fomsodded, she-nised, or hetmobased instead.)
  • In William Burrough’s Naked Lunch, the dildo used in the pegging scene is called “Steely Dan.” Yes, that’s where Steely Dan got their name. Pegging… Steely Dan… that’s a mental picture I didn’t need.
  • (Remind me to add Steely Dan to my list of hard limits…)

Dumb (Domme) Q &A:

pegging with a dildo advice

Inappropriate!

Q: How can I peg my boyfriend?
A: Bend him over, silly.

Q: How can I talk my husband into letting me peg him?
A: Liquor helps.

Q: What should I use to peg my partner?
A:
Vegetables, hair-brushes, rolls of wrapping paper, novelty microphones, soup cans, replica light sabres, flashlights, snow globes, and vuvuzelas are all inappropriate for pegging. I recommend a good dildo and a harness. I highly recommend this one.

Misconceptions & General Stupidity:

  • Wanting something in your ass doesn’t mean you’re gay. That’s stupid… unless you want a man’s cock in your ass, then you’re probably gay.
  • Wanting something in your ass doesn’t mean you’re a sub. That’s stupid. Honestly, if I could peg men into submission, I’d wear a strap-on all day long, “accidentally” dropping twenty-dollar bills as I went about my business.
  • Having something in your ass isn’t the “ultimate” act of submission. That assumption is founded on a couple of ass-backwards notions. For the record: 1) Allowing penetration isn’t always submissive, 2) There’s no single “ultimate” anything, and 3) Your ass isn’t holy. (ha!)
woman pegging a husband with dildo

Does Dumb Domme?:

Dumb Domme Does!

Some people shake hands or embrace when they greet each other. Some couples hug or share a quick kiss.

I prefer pegging. It’s how I say “hello.”


works consulted: Wikipedia: “pegging  Savage Love’s “Let’s Vote” and “We Have a Winner!”  
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  9 Responses to “BDSM Lexicon Entry #7: “Pegging””

  1. So, how do you say "Hello" to women?

  2. I keep trying those cool barely-move-my-head nods that men do with each other, but it doesn't seem to be catching on with the ladies.

    I generally opt for a polite "hello."

    I guess it does sound as if I peg everyone hello. Ok… and now I'm imagining a world where everyone pegs in greeting… I should stop now, right?

  3. LOL hysterical, I love the list of inappropriate items.

  4. Given pegging is like 'saying hello' to you, I'm having a vision of you as an airline attendant saying hello to all male passengers. :)

    Hmmm not the ultimate act of submission… agreed. But maybe it's the penultimate act? If made to suck it first? Wait, is there such a thing as 'mouth pegging'?

    Sheesh my mind runneth away from me.

  5. I think "ultimate" (or "penultimate") depends on the person/people involved. My guess is that there are male Doms who demand to be pegged–in those cases, pegging isn't submission at all. I think pegging can be, but isn't always.

    I'm surprised by the people I talk to that equate the two–pegging and submission–as if after a magical pegging, the dude is automagically a sub.

    I peg thee, Sir Sub!

    Great, now I'm imagining ridiculous scenarios… pegging "good game" down the line after a co-ed softball game…the possibilities for bad porn are really endless here.

  6. “I peg thee, Sir Sub!”

    LMFAO you never cease to amaze me with your humor. On a lesbian flipside many lesbians go through the mindset of “well If I like to be pegged, or penetrated by a woman does that mean I am not really a lesbian” I actually had a partner I slept with who used a strap on and then immediately afterwards told me that I should reconsider my sexuality.It was a blow to the chest! .I went through this once a long time ago. Now I am more comfortable with it. I have found I just find pleasure in it and I also while I don’t think pegging or penetration is a submissive thing I do find it incredibly erotic in a control type sense yes.

    Respectfully,
    mysticlez

  7. If pegging is like saying hello to you it must be interesting when you meet new people :-)

  8. my wife just started pegging me i love it

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