safeword, n.: A safeword is a code word or phrase used during BDSM “play” by a submissive or bottom to indicate that she/he/eir wants or needs to stop the activity.
“”He was saying all kinds of crazy stuff when I smacked his ass with the wooden spoons, but when I pulled out the frying pan, he called ‘Gwyneth Paltrow.’ That’s our safeword, so I quit. ”
“Fuck… oh fuck. [what the fuck is the safeword…?!?!?] Tangelo! Shit. Persimmon! Umm… pluot! Gogi berry? Kiwi? Kumquat! KUMQUAT! KUMQUAT!”.” … [read more]