Oct 032011
 

I’d like to believe I have a fairly extensive vocabulary. However, taking my first steps into BDSM and kink has demanded that I learn a whole new set of terms.

For your amusement and for your information, I present the first installment in Dumb Domme’s BDSM Lexicon.

View all past entries here.


squicked, v.,/skwɪkt/ (IPA)  [skwikt] (spelled)

squick, v.: To cause someone to feel a visceral revulsion or extreme personal distaste.

“Ironically, he’s comfortable wearing stockings and stilettos, but asking him to put on a pair of pink panties squicks him.”

squicked, v.: The present or past state of visceral revulsion or extreme personal distaste.

“I’m not even into pony play, so when he suggested ‘My Little Pony’ play, I was really squicked! I faked an emergency text message and got the fuck out of there.”

 “I’m a little squicked that you have ‘ranch dressing’ on your list of fetishes.”

Of Note:

“Squicked” implies a personal reaction or personal preference rather than a general, moral, or universal disapproval. For example, the idea of having intimate contact with a furry squicks me out. While the idea of fucking a dude in a kangaroo costume is distasteful to me, I have absolutely no problem if other consenting adults want to fuck as furries or with furries.

Although not as common, “squick” may also be used as a noun meaning “someone else’s kink.” For example, “Playing naked air guitar is his squick, not mine.”

Possible Origins:

Various sources suggest the origins of “squicked” go back to alt.sex.bondage group, and is supposedly onomatopoeic for the sound produced when an individual pops a partner’s eyeball out and proceeds to fuck that partner in the eyesocket, i.e., skullfucking.

Dumb Domme Commentary:

What the fuck?! I mean, I know language often takes things to the extreme, but did we have to go to skullfucking?  Seriously people.

Also, someone remind me to add furries and My Little Pony to my list of hard limits.


works consulted: foresmutters project, urban dictionary, fetlife
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