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back in town

 my boy
Sep 022011
 

J is back in town. I’m going to see him Saturday night.  :)

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    • May (10)
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #24: Aftercare
      • maybe
      • e[lust] #46: erotic fiction, non-fiction, & poetry
      • Ask-A-Domme: dumb questions, discipline, and sadism for its own sake
      • Angelina Jolie's mastectomy: why we shouldn't focus on health care reform
      • abandon spreadsheet (sometimes less is more)
      • sad at you
      • up(date) my ass
      • it's not about submission... (why submission isn't weak)
      • my ignorance: submission = weakness
    • April (10)
      • combustion
      • beat me, whip me, call me Judy
      • consensual co-touching
      • e[lust] #45
      • how to shave your asshole
      • I break shoes
      • what does it mean to break a submissive?
      • breaking: a beautiful abstraction
      • the morning after: sweet, indulgent, and deeply satisfying
      • mimesis
    • March (10)
      • how do I get my wife to dominate me?
      • costs vs. benefits
      • three orgasms... THREE!
      • make me
      • e[lust] #44
      • Dumb Domme's Travel Tips
      • fantasy and obsession
      • lesson learned
      • how to pill your pet
      • what does dominance feel like?
    • February (10)
      • pussy pride and labia shame
      • everyday D/s
      • revisiting the damsel in distress
      • two years
      • upcycle Valentine's Day
      • I want love...
      • how it should be done
      • dumb things I’ve said, 6
      • cocksucking, consideration, capitalist whores
      • you’re too willing; I want too much
    • January (11)
      • damsel in distress
      • orgasm ≠ exorcism
      • consider me
      • "under consideration"
      • Ask-A-Domme Advice: I'm meeting a dom for the first time, but I'm not allowed to see him
      • submissive male or Nigerian email scam?
      • step 3: fail
      • step 1: plan, step 2: get attention
      • I drop
      • cocksucking
      • have you ever?
  • 2012 (199)
    • December (16)
      • the breakup rules
      • bite me
      • post-party Roomba report
      • gift-wrapped hairballs and unfrozen hams
      • his needs, my wants
      • ruthless capitalist stripper whore
      • what people are saying
      • win-win
      • ask-a-domme: pork, plugs, and pegging
      • e[lust] #42
      • he made time
      • my pussy predicts the future
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #23: BDSM capitalization
      • don't tell me "no"
      • the last of the lust
      • this changes things
    • November (15)
      • not-so-secret anymore
      • hello there, J
      • dinosaurs and dildos
      • ebbs and flows
      • call
      • fowl suspension, spanked chicken, turkey fisting
      • domestic advice
      • orgasm = kryptonite
      • orgasm project update
      • e[lust] #41
      • a different kind of scene
      • self-reliance
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #22: Protocol
      • pick one
      • my place in the world
    • October (12)
      • about to be devoured
      • bumps, bruises, and other sex injuries
      • selfish vs. self-centered
      • exhibitionism, public nudity, and non-consent
      • Ask-a-Domme: paddles, piercings, punishments
      • so fucking beautiful
      • plaid pajama bottoms
      • kinky Shakespeare: (malesub) Romeo and (Domme) Juliet
      • rant: reductive role bullshit
      • fuck that
      • need to remember
      • Ask-a-Domme: Where can I play?
    • September (10)
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #21: Hard and Soft Limits
      • the burn
      • where in the world is my vagina?
      • want
      • Emo Domme
      • I wasn't kidding about the 404 error message....
      • e[lust] #40
      • 404 Error: FUCKED!
      • enacting desire (thoughts on cuckolding, tease and denial, and jealousy)
      • missed opportunity
    • August (17)
      • hair in error
      • out of control
      • can I try to make you come?
      • "I mutilate you"
      • the Qs and the As
      • dressing Domme, part 4
      • almost broken
      • e[lust] #39
      • one year
      • dressing Domme, part 3
      • say it (tell me)
      • dressing Domme, part 2
      • dressing Domme, part 1
      • bitch
      • unfortunate personal grooming
      • coming home, 2
      • coming home
    • July (12)
      • buy my love (dominate a Domme)
      • identity crisis?
      • e[lust] #38
      • I own you (love, romance, and D/s)
      • no topping from the bottom
      • topping from the bottom
      • Q & A: do I ever fantasize about submitting?
      • breaking your limits (on my terms)
      • why "soft limits" aren't useful
      • tease me
      • bondage
      • getting back to reality
    • June (20)
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      • fucking ugly
      • not forever
      • Help Wanted (redirecting feeds)
      • up and running?
      • platform update & orgasm barriers
      • Dumb Domme service interruption
      • good girl
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      • after orgasm
      • e[lust] #37
      • authenticity of orgasm
      • orgasm project update
      • romance, love, and play
      • dumb things I've said, 5
      • Q & A: feeling Dommely, boys, etc.
      • anniversary
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #20: Subspace
      • evolving fantasies
      • hitachi attachment menagerie
    • May (16)
      • dinner party entertainment
      • fetish shop fuck shoes
      • butt plugs and anal dilators: what's the difference?
      • running
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #19: Gender-Neutral Pronoun
      • flying vibrator, bad behavior
      • e[lust] #36
      • open you up
      • advice: hypnosis, orgasm control, and lies
      • vanilla lingerie
      • broken link, busted plan
      • Rev. D on love and marriage
      • inspection
      • keep me running hot
      • (un)clear communication
      • stages of (inorgasmic) grief
    • April (16)
      • marionette
      • manufactured problem
      • dumb conversations, 3
      • hard and sweet and often
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #18: Trigger Warning
      • Katie Roiphe, Feminism, and BDSM
      • agenda
      • e[lust] #35
      • la petite mort
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #17: Top Drop
      • Apples and Oranges
      • responses to response (to responses)
      • one of those girls
      • dumb conversations, 2
      • (not in) subspace
      • imagining
    • March (18)
      • fapping monkey masturbation
      • do not want
      • what I want (skills for my submissive male)
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #16: Butt Plug
      • response to post-mortem response
      • post-mortem response
      • Qs in my queue
      • weekend post-mortem
      • of butt plugs and toothbrushes
      • [e]lust #34
      • please fuck me
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #15: Queening
      • key lime martini
      • follow through
      • running through my head today
      • self-bondage fail
      • how to compliment a woman
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #14: Cuckold
    • February (24)
      • fishnets and spanking and sleep
      • thirty going on thirteen
      • what do you want?
      • off balance
      • fucked his ass and fell asleep
      • soapy mess
      • bullet vibe or laser pointer
      • e[lust] #33
      • defective ginger
      • weekend shopping list
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #13: Animal Role-play
      • wanting
      • dirty literary love letters
      • Valentine's Day is fucking stupid
      • dumb things I've said, 4
      • telling
      • I lied
      • We-Vibe 3
      • burn
      • dumb beauty products
      • post-Brazilian
      • Brazilian
      • happy birthday, J
      • strap-on harnesses
    • January (23)
      • hood (inhuman)
      • on punishments
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #12: Ball-busting
      • quick update
      • reconsider
      • small sounds
      • e[lust] #32
      • not what I meant by "my cock"
      • Retrospective, Part 7: (As Promised) No Insight and No Conclusion
      • Retrospective, Part 6: Oh... Hell No!
      • Retrospective, Part 5: Dumb Service Top
      • Retrospective, Part 4: Self Consciousness, Self Confidence
      • masturbated instead
      • Retrospective, Part 3: Playing Domme
      • Retrospective, Part 2: Oops
      • Retrospective, Part 1: Accidental Dominant
      • A Retrospective
      • font Domme
      • random NYC moment (love this!)
      • watching him
      • on equality in D/s relationships
      • sarcasm
      • it's a something
  • 2011 (113)
    • December (23)
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #11: Genderqueer
      • unexpected compliment
      • Christmas: the good, the bad, and the ugly
      • christmas stockings
      • 'Twas the Night Before Christmas
      • drop
      • waking you
      • dumb things I've said, 3 (now illustrated!)*
      • feeling vibes
      • turtle power
      • almost avoidance
      • 100th post!
      • dumb conversation
      • sarcastic font
      • Portions for Foxes
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #10: Brat
      • stuff I should have thought about
      • dressed today
      • LELO Luna Pleasure Beads
      • never naked
      • willing to offer
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #9: Polyamorous
      • musically inclined
    • November (28)
      • labia shame
      • what I want
      • panties and pomegranates
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #8: "Homage"
      • car keys
      • dumb things I've said, 2
      • hotel, post-mortem
      • poultry bondage
      • she's still here
      • Q & A: does J read?
      • I miss...
      • avatars
      • e[lust] #31
      • things I'm loving
      • things I'm hating
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #7: "Pegging"
      • fear
      • hotel, part 2
      • hotel, part 1
      • the rules
      • playing house post-mortem
      • halloween corset
      • naked and bent over...
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #6: "Pervertibles"
      • "troubles in love?"
      • feral
      • first hate mail
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #5: "Rimming"
    • October (26)
      • Happy Halloween!
      • dumb things I've said
      • I threw my back out, masturbating
      • how to approach your partner with a fantasy
      • everything to do with sex show
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #4: "Safeword"
      • I want your suggestions!
      • readership
      • femdom art
      • celebrate #SpiritDay!
      • sex and gender myths, debunked?
      • do you like to watch?
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #3: "Figging"
      • sadistic
      • collar
      • Dommes going down (yes, like that)
      • door opens drunk
      • e[lust] #30
      • Happy National Coming Out Day!
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #2: "Pansexual"
      • it's okay
      • epic orgasm (with my own cock!)
      • broken shoe
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #1: "Squicked"
      • admiration
      • sweat and leather
    • September (26)
      • corset fail
      • Trojan Vibrations
      • what makes you happy?
      • blow jobs/handshakes
      • corset shopping
      • happily ever after (Disney re-envisioned)
      • against the metal
      • she goes down (no, not like that)
      • lost today
      • unfortunate typo in romance novel
      • not done with you yet
      • BDSM and Aristotle's Aesthetics
      • autocorrect fail
      • not what I expected
      • evening prayers
      • email: FetLife profile advice request
      • first sex dream
      • (im)perfection
      • cheer me up... take off your pants
      • Roomba sex
      • the finger
      • razor
      • you woke me for what?
      • email: Dear Domme
      • the rules, stapled to your chest
      • back in town
    • August (10)
      • only when he is exposed
      • I want.
      • aesthetics and Lady Gaga
      • Out of Town
      • Success! (or, Shopping Day 3)
      • Fuck Shoes Fail (or, Shopping Day 2)
      • Total Failure (or, Shopping Day 1)
      • Dress for Success
      • Origin Stories
      • Hi. I'm new here.

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