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back in town

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Sep 022011
 

J is back in town. I’m going to see him Saturday night.  :)

back in town was last modified: February 19th, 2013 by Dumb Domme
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      • bite me
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      • gift-wrapped hairballs and unfrozen hams
      • his needs, my wants
      • ruthless capitalist stripper whore
      • what people are saying
      • win-win
      • ask-a-domme: pork, plugs, and pegging
      • e[lust] #42
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      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #23: BDSM capitalization
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      • hello there, J
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      • ebbs and flows
      • call
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      • orgasm project update
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      • a different kind of scene
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      • pick one
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      • bumps, bruises, and other sex injuries
      • selfish vs. self-centered
      • exhibitionism, public nudity, and non-consent
      • Ask-a-Domme: paddles, piercings, punishments
      • so fucking beautiful
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      • kinky Shakespeare: (malesub) Romeo and (Domme) Juliet
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      • fuck that
      • need to remember
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      • the burn
      • where in the world is my vagina?
      • want
      • Emo Domme
      • I wasn't kidding about the 404 error message....
      • e[lust] #40
      • 404 Error: FUCKED!
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      • missed opportunity
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      • out of control
      • can I try to make you come?
      • "I mutilate you"
      • the Qs and the As
      • dressing Domme, part 4
      • almost broken
      • e[lust] #39
      • one year
      • dressing Domme, part 3
      • say it (tell me)
      • dressing Domme, part 2
      • dressing Domme, part 1
      • bitch
      • unfortunate personal grooming
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      • buy my love (dominate a Domme)
      • identity crisis?
      • e[lust] #38
      • I own you (love, romance, and D/s)
      • no topping from the bottom
      • topping from the bottom
      • Q & A: do I ever fantasize about submitting?
      • breaking your limits (on my terms)
      • why "soft limits" aren't useful
      • tease me
      • bondage
      • getting back to reality
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      • fucking ugly
      • not forever
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      • platform update & orgasm barriers
      • Dumb Domme service interruption
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      • dumb things I've said, 5
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      • fetish shop fuck shoes
      • butt plugs and anal dilators: what's the difference?
      • running
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #19: Gender-Neutral Pronoun
      • flying vibrator, bad behavior
      • e[lust] #36
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      • advice: hypnosis, orgasm control, and lies
      • vanilla lingerie
      • broken link, busted plan
      • Rev. D on love and marriage
      • inspection
      • keep me running hot
      • (un)clear communication
      • stages of (inorgasmic) grief
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      • manufactured problem
      • dumb conversations, 3
      • hard and sweet and often
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #18: Trigger Warning
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      • Apples and Oranges
      • responses to response (to responses)
      • one of those girls
      • dumb conversations, 2
      • (not in) subspace
      • imagining
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      • fapping monkey masturbation
      • do not want
      • what I want (skills for my submissive male)
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #16: Butt Plug
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      • post-mortem response
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      • weekend post-mortem
      • of butt plugs and toothbrushes
      • [e]lust #34
      • please fuck me
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #15: Queening
      • key lime martini
      • follow through
      • running through my head today
      • self-bondage fail
      • how to compliment a woman
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #14: Cuckold
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      • fishnets and spanking and sleep
      • thirty going on thirteen
      • what do you want?
      • off balance
      • fucked his ass and fell asleep
      • soapy mess
      • bullet vibe or laser pointer
      • e[lust] #33
      • defective ginger
      • weekend shopping list
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #13: Animal Role-play
      • wanting
      • dirty literary love letters
      • Valentine's Day is fucking stupid
      • dumb things I've said, 4
      • telling
      • I lied
      • We-Vibe 3
      • burn
      • dumb beauty products
      • post-Brazilian
      • Brazilian
      • happy birthday, J
      • strap-on harnesses
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      • on punishments
      • BDSM Lexicon Entry #12: Ball-busting
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      • reconsider
      • small sounds
      • e[lust] #32
      • not what I meant by "my cock"
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      • watching him
      • on equality in D/s relationships
      • sarcasm
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